How I'm Overcoming Barriers to Quiet Time with Jesus

It's oftentimes right in the middle of me running around caring for the kids and the house that the Holy Spirit reminds me of Mary and Martha.

Martha: "Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me to serve alone? Tell her then to help me.

Jesus: "Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things, but one thing is necessary. Mary has chosen the good portion, which will not be taken away from her,"

Luke 10:38-42

OUCH! Suddenly, I'm reminded that all these THINGS that I am concerned about are not necessary, according to Jesus. Not to say that they shouldn't be done, but I think Jesus wants me to remember in those moments that I have a more pressing and prominent need, His presence. I actually think that Jesus reminds me of this verse whenever I start performing instead of serving. Mmm, yes. I think it is when I start striving to serve my home and my family that Jesus steps in to bring me back to a resting place in Him. God has called us to work as unto Him and to do works without grudge or complaining. (Philippians2:12-16, Colossians3:16-17, Colossians3:22-24) I think without a word, my thoughts and countenance expose my heart posture. Sometimes I am weary and discouraged. Sometimes, I do things because I want my husband or God to see that I am a good wife, mom, and servant. I'm striving, not resting. I'm so glad that God is so mindful of me in this regard. He sees me running around trying accomplish tasks sometimes for accolades or validation, all the while straying from the place of eternal acceptance and heavenly validation in Christ. In His love, mercy, and grace He draws me to himself to remind me that I am loved with an everlasting love. I need that reminder so often. Thank you Jesus!

I said all this to share some ways I am overcoming barriers to spending time with Jesus. There have been times that I put my Bible down to sit with the kids when they've cried out for me. Sometimes they want to be held and loved on and I feel like their need is more important that what I'm doing. I've now found a way to be close to them and stay committed to my "quiet time".

This image was taken for demonstration purposes. :)

While my children are doing independent play time in their play pen I take the opportunity to sit close by and seek the Lord. I bought a cheap pair of headphones from Walmart to play worship instrumentals or listen to the Word. This makes me feel like I am in a private place with Jesus. The kids are content because I'm close by and I am content because I can spend time with Jesus while still keeping an eye on my babies. Now, of course the kids still require my attention sometimes, but I've gotten good about letting them self sooth at times and attending to them at other times. I make sure to go back to my time with Jesus though. Sometimes, I even sit in the play pen with them and continue worshiping or reading scripture.

This is one of many simple fixes that help me to find the good portion as Mary did. I know that it seems impossible at times, but with God's wisdom and patience I believe every mom, wife, woman can discover those pockets of time and space where they can meet with Jesus, dispite their busy schedule. Its just too important not to do. John 15:5 says we can do NOTHING without Christ. Its true. You can't be your best as a woman, wife, or mom without Jesus. It's the most necessary task of everyday of our lives. Stay encouraged momma, with God ALL things are possible. (Matthew 19:26)

Comment ways that you've learned to overcome barriers to quiet time with Jesus.